So you’re using my “no” from YOUR article as a “no” to this article? They’re not even the same. You over-generalized about marriage and what women want, and absolutely gaslit women in general when they said they didn’t want to marry. My article was all about me doing what works for me: wanting an unconventional relationship, on terms that worked for both me AND a future partner. So it’s not “no” — it’s a big yes, but I want things a certain way to make an unconventional relationship work — after having been married twice for 25 years and living with both husbands. Careful again how you over-generalize!